This is the sixth of a series of articles started July 10, 2006 (article entitled “The Simplest Way to Increase Profits“).about increasing profits from trading by abstaining from trading when losses are likely to occur.
You could easily blame other people for causing you to be “too stressed out” to trade profitably. Because of other people, you sometimes feel emotions that disable you so that you do things that result in losses. For example:
entering those e-Mini futures day trades at the wrong time and wrong price
staying in losing trades stock options past your budgeted stop loss
failing to protect accrued profits in your swing and position trades
etc.
Some of those disabling emotions include anger, hurt, frustration, resentment, fear, anxiety, guilt, etc.
Are there people around you when you trade or just before you go to trade that cause you to feel those disabling emotions? How about:
Your spouse who keeps nagging you to give up trading and get a “real” job
Your mother who browbeats you about your love life or lack thereof
Your flaky cousin who thinks trading e-Mini’s on the CME is some sort of scam
Your dumb brother-in-law who keeps saying trading is so easy a monkey could do it
Your stressed out financial partner who put up the cash for you to trade and who phones every day to put pressure on you to hurry up and make him rich
Your kids who won’t listen to you about whatever
Are any of these people in your life? If so, they are triggering the disabling emotions that cause you to do things that result in trading losses. Things like failing to enter trades that turn out profitable, staying in losing trades past your budgeted stop loss, failing to protect accrued profits, etc.
You are likely more inclined to want to do something about those other people than to change something about yourself. So go ahead. Plan now to do something about putting some distance or barrier between yourself and those other people so that you can decrease trading losses. Then start doing something about one of them today…and something about another one the next day…and so on.
Because if you don’t fix them, they’re going to fix you so you can’t trade!
And remember…you’re better off abstaining from trading until you do something to put some distance or barrier between you and these toxic people in your life.
Recall the formula:
Net Trading Profits = Wins – Losses – Costs
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