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Friday, January 23, 2009

Back February 2, 2009

…cont’d from yesterday…

Car: Don’t talk on your cell phone while driving
Tradind: Maintain a quiet mind when managing open positions so you don’t talk yourself out of a good trade

Car: Use your car mirrors
Trading: Use Feng Shui mirrors during trading

Car: Never let kids without drivers licences drive your car
Trading: Never use (much) real money to experimental trades

Trading: Never trade as if you’re playing a video game
Car: Don’t drive your real car the way you would a bumping car at am amusement park

I’m taking next week off in observance of the Chinese New Year and will be back February 2, 2009.


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Thursday, January 22, 2009

Chasing red lights and run-away prices

…cont’d from yesterday…

Car: Stop at red lights
Trading: Don’t chase price past your ideal entry point

Car: Keep your eyes on the road, don’t daydream about your destination while driving
Trading: Focus on trading tasks, not the money, during trading hours

Car: Don’t drive when road conditions are extra hazardous or when your brakes aren’t working
Trading: Don’t trade when market conditions are not favorable to your method or if your equipment is not working

...cont'd tomorrow...

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Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Overloading your car or your trades

…cont’d from yesterday…

Car: Don’t put more people in your car than the number of seatbelts available in it.
Trading: Position Size so that if your Stop Loss Order is filled that you only lose less than 1% of your account on any trade.

Car: take driving lessons before attempting to drive by yourself
Trading: Condition yourself BEFORE trading so that you automatically follow your Trading Plan

Car: Don’t drive when your ability to drive is impaired by alcohol or drugs
Trading: Don’t trade if you are physically or emotionally not well

...cont'd tomorrow...

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Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Trading is like ...

Trading is like driving a car. Used properly, it gets you where you want to go. Used improperly, it causes you to suffer immediate painful injuries.

Proper trading, like driving a car, includes these items.

Car: Don’t drive into a road that has a “Do Not Enter” sign.
Trading: Don’t take trades not authorized by your Trading Plan.

Car: Keep your doors locked while driving so you don’t get car-jacked.
Trading: Use a hard stop loss order

...cont'd tomorrow...

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Friday, January 16, 2009

Habit forming In-CAN-tations

More on the topic of turning your New Year Resolution (of always entering a Stop Loss Order immediately after you open a new position) into an unshakable habit.

A fifth way of converting this Resolution into a habit is to use incantations to install a belief that carrying through with this Resolution is linked with your Identity and that it’s desirable to carry through with this Resolution.

For example, say to yourself: “I’m the kind of person who always uses Stop Loss Orders. Stop Loss Orders are like brakes on a car. Used properly, they will save my life. Failing to use them could get me killed. I don’t want to be killed because I want to …. Therefore, I’m going to use Stop Loss Orders every time today.“ Say that to yourself with EXTREME emotional intensity. Say it to yourself repeatedly (at least 10 times) before you start your trading day. Say it throughout the trading day too.

...back Tuesday of next week...

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Thursday, January 15, 2009

Imaginary Significant Emotional Events

More on the topic of turning your New Year Resolution (of always entering a Stop Loss Order immediately after you open a new position) into an unshakable habit.

Instead of hiring a coach, you can just imagine yourself going through the Significant Emotional Events described yesterday. That’s actually better because you save money and you can do it repeatedly to/for yourself at your convenience. A good time to do it to/for yourself is every day just before you go to your computer to trade. That’s a fourth way of converting your New Year Resolution into a habit.

...cont'd tomorrow...

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Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Drill Sergeant Method of Installing Habits

More on the topic of turning your New Year Resolution (of always entering a Stop Loss Order immediately after you open a new position) into an unshakable habit.

A third way of turning that new Year Resolution into an iron clad habit is to create for yourself a Significant Emotional Event in which you MUST enter a Stop Loss Order to avoid intense immediate PAIN.

Psychologists who study how people learn have long ago discovered that people put things into long term memory quicker and keep it there longer when whatever they learn is coupled with a Significant Emotional Event. For example, if you live near New York City, do you remember what you were doing on the morning of September 11, 2001? Most likely you do! You were likely to have been experiencing a Significant Emotional Event that day. So the information about what your were doing that morning has been locked into your long term memory with just that one occurrence of the event (as contrasted with having to do repetitions as in the two other methods described earlier this week in this blog). And that even has stayed in your long term memory since 2001, many years ago.

Similarly, you can create a Significant Emotional Event for yourself so that you remember to enter a Stop Loss Order immediately after you open a new position.

A painful way of having that Significant Emotional Event is to hire yourself a coach who will either give you a painful Significant Emotional Event or give you a pleasurable Significant Emotional Event to accompany the direction to enter a Stop Loss Order immediately after you open a new position.

For example, your coach could yell, scream and curse at you like in movie scenes about drill sergeants in the military. Part of that yelling, screaming and cursing include directions that you are to ALWAYS enter a m*** f*** Stop Loss Order every single time!!! Do you hear me!!! You coach has to do that in your face and maybe threaten you with a gun to your head as that will surely help.

Another example is that your coach hires a hooker who *** you until you promise to ALWAYS enter Stop Loss Order every single time!!!

...cont'd tomorrow...

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Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Mentally Practice Entering Stop Orders

More on the topic of turning your New Year Resolution (of always entering a Stop Loss Order immediately after you open a new position) into an unshakable habit.

A second way of turning that new Year Resolution into an iron clad habit is to mentally practice it. In between trades, and while watching commercials on TV, imagine going through the motions of opening a new position and immediately entering a Stop Loss Order. Do that as often as you can, at least once every day. Especially do it a few minutes before you go to your computer to trade.

...cont'd tomorrow...

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Monday, January 12, 2009

New Year Resolution

Failing to stop a loss is a prevalent method of wreaking your trading/investment account.

BE IT RESOLVED that every time you open a position this New Year you will follow through immediately with a Stop Loss Order.

Resolving to do this is the first step. That alone will not bring into being the result you want, namely that of actually following through on the resolution. You must convert that resolution into a habit that you automatically carry out without thinking. In fact, you must make the habit so strong that you have to consciously think about what you’re doing in order to abstain from entering a Stop Loss Order immediately after you open a new position.

One way of turning your New Year Resolution (of always entering a Stop Loss Order immediately after you open a new position) into a habit is to physically practice it. Get a simulator. Open a position. And immediately enter a Stop Loss Order. Do that 50 times the first time you do it. Then do it 10 times every day on a simulator. Many brokers have free simulators that you can use. For example, Interactive Brokers has it and they provide it for free.

There are other ways of turning this New Year Resolution into a habit...

...cont'd tomorrow...

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